Has your marriage been broken by pornography? 

Are you feeling completely hopeless and unsure of how to move forward?

Offended spouses often feel utterly betrayed, and want more than anything to receive a miracle, to have their marriages mended or better yet–to go back to how it was before. But how?  

How do you get back to feeling like you can trust your spouse again
  when 
all you feel is constant 
fear, shame, guilt, and complete brokenness?

Fear, shame, quilt and brokenness make you want to…

sweep it under the rug and pretend it never happened
chalk it up “pornography is the norm” and move on. 
OR call it quits. 

But, it isn’t about ignoring problems, blaming one another, or giving up,
but really and truly fighting together to build lasting trust.

Can marriages actually be fixed?
 
The short answer is yes
 
Believe it or not, your marriage can be even better than before the broken trust occurred!
    • Every broken couple has the potential to enjoy renewed trust.
    • It takes very direct steps to see restoration.
    • Fear, shame, guilt, and brokenness can become a thing of the past.
    • You need a starting place and a true understanding of trust.
    • You can’t ignore the problem or pass it off as normal. 

In our personal restoration journey, the more we committed to building lasting trust, the more we began to see that we might actually be able to walk through the betrayal and come out on the other side–together! 

The more transparent we were in the beginning, the more confident we became that we could overcome. We saw 
the importance of repentance, confession, and transparency and how they all played a part in our healing. 

As we faithfully forged ahead, we were on the road to restoration without realizing that true freedom and complete restoration was going to be the reward that we reaped for being committed to our marriage.

We finally experienced trust and freedom again in our marriage. Now, we take what we have learned to help broken couples!

But before we share our story with you, we want to tell you about why the majority of marriages broken by pornography aren’t finding the full restoration that they deeply desire.

Why Aren’t Most Couples Experiencing Restoration in their Marriages?

The constant stress, worry, doubt, and fear is inevitably what keeps couples from moving toward the result that they desire.

Offended spouses struggle with…

◊ fear of the sincerity of the apology and the possibility of relapse
◊ feeling skeptical of true openness
◊ not being able to let go of the lies of the past
◊ feeling the guilt — blaming self — “this is my fault”
◊ no one understands the hurt, shame, loneliness, and anger
◊ getting the spouse to understand that trust is earned
◊ breaking through the silence
◊ trying to forgive and forget

We know, based on statistics, that hundreds of couples are smoothing it over, making excuses, and choosing to look past it for years because it’s “normal.” Spouses are blamed for over-reacting because “it’s not even real.” They go on and on like this with a constant fear that sometimes gets buried for chunks of time when things are going well, but it lies dormant because it is never dealt with. Yet sadly, couples are no closer to experiencing true and lasting restoration.

The truth is that if you want different results, you need to do things differently. It’s time to STOP sweeping things under the rug, and face them head on!
You try the best you know how to fix your marriage….
 
With a focused commitment and desire to fix your marriage, you get started. You pull yourself up, get yourself together, and determine to forgive and just let it go. It starts off with grit and determination- but you find yourself still hurting and unable to leave your bitterness behind. And…
  • You begin doubting yourself.
  • You start comparing your journey with other couples.
  • You wonder what you are missing that they are doing right. 
    • Why is their marriage so much better? Do they never have problems?
  • You begin thinking that you must have brought this on yourself. 
    • Self-doubt sets in, and you start believing that you could have done something to keep your spouse’s eyes on you alone.

Then the doubt sets in, and you begin questioning your entire marriage…

    • What am I even doing here?
    • How can this marriage ever feel normal again?
    • Will he or she turn back to porn?
    • And worst of all…is it even possible for me to trust my spouse again?

Honestly, the fact that you’re not even sure you can forgive your spouse to actually start the process of restoration, is what keeps you stuck. That means you won’t experience

    • the beauty of transparency.
    • the freedom of forgiveness.
    • complete trust.
    • full restoration.

While what you want is to rebuild trust in your marriage, it’s often much easier to blame yourself, admit that it’s really “not that bad,” and put your head down and just move on.

For all of your hard work, you will have attempted to fix your broken marriage by letting time “heal” your wounds. The truth is–that would be the worst thing you can do.

The truth is that if you want different results, you need to do things differently. It’s time to STOP sweeping things under the rug, and face them head on!

Your fears regarding your marriage are totally justified.

While the odds to seeing complete restoration in your marriage seems low – the potential of this happening is actually high with the right tools!

However, many things have to look different from what many people will advise you to do, to even get started by laying the ground rules that leads to restoration in your marriage.

The Offended:

  • You need to give yourself grace.
  • You need to set safeguards and boundaries.
  • You need to understand how porn affects the brain.
  • You need to grasp what forgiveness really is.

The Offender:

  • You need to take responsibility.
  • You need to fully and sincerely repent.
  • You need to confess to your spouse.
  • You need to have accountability.

Together, you must be committed and transparent in order to build trust. 

>>The biggest mistake that most couples make is that they don’t make accountability and transparency a priority.<<

Accountability and transparency along with communication and commitment are core elements for rebuilding broken trust in any marriage. What couples don’t realize is that if they faithfully do take these steps in the beginning, they will be walking towards restoration — a marriage in which you can freely trust and be confident in.

 

Being the wife of Chris for over 20 years, I’m so thankful for the restoration we found for ourselves and our marriage back in 2017.

Our story started way back in 1996 when we became high school sweethearts. My heart desired a loving, doting, proud husband! And that’s just what I got. While our story has its bumps (like all do), we experienced a joyful, happy marriage until just after our 7th child was born.

That’s when Chris confessed to me that he had an addiction to pornography. He already had received repentance but he wanted to confess to me. He knew that by doing so, life was about to get very rocky.

It was on that hard, rocky road that we discovered the elements needed for complete healing and restoration in our marriage!

                                                                                                                                                                                                           ~Sabrina 

 

 

Are you ready to invest in your marriage with a tried and proven roadmap that leads to restoration by rebuilding trust?

If so, we are excited to invite you to join us in The Marriage Restoration Roadmap™ where we will guide you in such a way that restoration in your marriage is 100% possible! 

The Marriage Restoration Roadmap Program Contents

The Marriage Restoration Roadmap™ is a 12-month program that guides couples who have been broken by pornography and leads them to fully trusting again by showing them how to restore their marriage.

The Marriage Restoration Roadmap™ provides you with step-by-step actions to take in order to restore broken trust, even if you have no idea how to proceed at this point.

Inside this program, you will:

  • Establish the ground rules for how and why certain things must take place in order to even begin your journey to restoration. 
  • Commit to your marriage, your spouse, and to yourself by learning what true commitment is.
  • Build trust with one another through trust building activities, but first understanding the true nature of trust.
  • Embrace changes that the all of this has brought into your marriage. AND…
  • Live in the restoration of your marriage!

The Marriage Restoration Roadmap…

  • provides you with step-by-step actions (from a Biblical worldview) to take in order to restore broken trust, even if you are considering divorce.
  • is a digital course coupled with other specific resources that pinpoint specific struggles to help broken couples. 
  • focuses on certain steps that were essential for restoration in our own marriage.
  • consists of FOUR separate elements (deliverables), including the core roadmap and other resources for married couples.
  • begins with a 5-module core roadmap that walks couples through their broken trust and naturally leads to restoration.

Take a Peek Inside The Marriage Restoration Roadmap!

#1 - The Core Roadmap:

Take a quick look at each module:

#2 - The Trust Equation PDF:

 

The Trust Equation Blueprint is a guide that will help couples to better understand the elements of trust, and to teach them HOW to
implement each of those in their marriage.

 

#3 - The Accountability Blueprint PDF:

 

“The Accountability Blueprint” will get down to the nitty-gritty about the importance of and ways to implement accountability. Without accountability, “staying the course” isn’t likely for most people.

 

#4 - The Communication Blueprint PDF:

 

“The Communication Blueprint” discusses the importance of and ways to communicate even in your brokenness so that you can reach the end result: restoration! Communication is KEY to any relationship.

Also included...

 

 

SOLACE IN THE PSALMS DEVOTIONAL AND JOURNAL

 
This is a devotional that focuses solely on the verses in Psalms that will help you through the darkness and give you opportunity to write your thoughts for each day.

 

BATTLE EACH DAY DEVOTIONAL

This is a devotional that focuses solely on the verses to help you through the struggles you will face each day as you seek to break free from the addiction of pornography.

 
The Marriage Restoration Roadmap Program Contents

EVERYTHING YOU NEED FOR RESTORING YOUR MARRIAGE

When enrolling in THE MARRIAGE RESTORATION ROADMAP™, you are committing to the full 12-month program with Chris and Sabrina as your online marriage mentors.

PLEASE NOTE: This program is only for those couples who are serious about committing to restoring their marriages with us as their marriage mentors. It is not for couples who are not BOTH seeking restoration.

There is a NO refund or cancellation policy. When enrolling, you are committing to this 12-month program and the full payment.

Chris and Sabrina are committed to mentoring you through how to have restoration in your marriage after pornography via email. 

TMRR Payment Option (2)

About Chris and Sabrina

Chris’s desire to be free from the bonds of pornography led to his repentance and confession to Sabrina. He knew doing such would leave them both broken, but it was the only way to lead the way for healing.  

Sabrina had no idea that her marriage would ever be turned upside down. It was in her loneliness and brokenness that she questioned all that she ever held dear. And she began a long, lonely road that she wasn’t sure would ever end.

This program has been birthed out of the journey they found themselves on and the steps they took to receive restoration in their marriage. This is a journey they took entirely by themselves, as the shame and guilt overtook them. Now, they understand the importance of sharing their story, which is why today you have the opportunity to take a trip on THE MARRIAGE RESTORATION ROADMAP™!

 

Are you ready for YOUR marriage to be restored?

FAQ

#1 – The five modules that make up the core roadmap including various resources to use with each module.
#2 – Access to Chris & Sabrina through email.
#3 – Accountability Blueprint 
#4 – Communication Blueprint
#5 – 
The Trust Equation
#6 – Solace in the Psalms daily devotional 
#7 – Battle Each Day daily devotional 

You have access to the roadmap for 12 months. At the end of 12 months, your access expires. If you wish to purchase another year, you can certainly do that. Some couples, who had already started their restoration process saw that 6 months was enough time, but we want to give you plenty of time to work through.

At this time, we are not using a community to stay in touch. We have found that many couples have a difficult time sharing such personal experiences with others. Therefore, your way to get in touch with us is through email. We will get back to you! Truthfully, email seems to be the best way to talk through things besides the occasional Zoom meeting. We reserve the right to offer those, even though we will not schedule them nor commit to them up front.  

We do not offer a payment plan. 

No. Due to the nature of the roadmap and the variables of each couple, we cannot issue refunds. We provide steps that work, but only if followed whole-heartedly by BOTH spouses.