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Looking in the Mirror of God’s Word

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My mind lies to me. It tells me I still look 27. It forgets I have wrinkles and that I can’t do all the things my younger body could do. It forgets how frizzy or lumpy my hair may look. It convinces me that I’m doing okay, no need to worry. But then I look in the mirror….

When I venture to take that look, there’s a different story altogether. I see a forty-something, aging woman, saggy where I’ve never been saggy and squishy in all the wrong places. My belly will never see the light of day again because, you know, stretch marks times seven.

So, just to see–I know why they say curiosity killed the cat–I get on the scale. Instead of good news to make me smile, I find myself fighting the urge to scream because I’ve tried. I’ve worked out and jogged and limited sweets and portions and all but banned anything except water (and coffee, but I think coffee doesn’t count).

The mirror is brutal, revealing all the imperfections–all the stuff I really hate about myself. And so, I strive to do better–exercise more, eat less, get a new hairstyle, buy some anti-wrinkle cream.Looking in the Mirror of God's Word

But there’s another Mirror.

This other mirror shows me the wrinkles, the flab, the squishy parts, and the unruliness of my soul.

I find myself carrying on with life, thinking I’m doing okay because in my mind, I don’t see all the imperfections. My mind’s eye usually sees what it wants to see.

It takes this Mirror–The Mirror of God’s Word.

In it, I find myself falling short even in the areas I thought were going fine.

In this mirror, I see clearly my insecurities and fears, my lack of trust.

In my mind, it masks itself as being conservative and shy. However, what I see in the mirror of God’s Word is insecurity and fear. 

No one wants labels like crazy, weird, or stupid slapped on them. Nor does anyone want to stand rejected and alone.

…yet, that’s exactly where Jesus stood. 

I’m afraid of not being accepted, being shunned or made fun of if I really put myself out there. If I stand on some controversy…that I won’t be smart enough to back my convictions, and ultimately be ripped to shreds. No one wants that.

The Mirror of God’s Word reveals even deeper issues – lack of trust.

I’ve always lacked confidence in myself; I see it every time I leave the bathroom, giving myself a final glance in the mirror, muttering, Oh, well…. I’ve never trusted myself to approach the hurting with an encouraging word, nor to stand for what I know is true. I’m afraid of what might happen. They’ll think I am crazy, you know, but God’s mirror reminds me it’s not about my confidence in myself, but in my confidence – my trust – in Him. 

Philippians 1:6 – 6 For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus.

Complete Trust

To be completely transparent with you, I’m afraid that if I let go completely and trust God, my hands being open won’t be able to grip when I need to–that I can’t hold on to the things or the ones that I cherish. The Mirror shows me that my holding back only cripples me more. I have forgotten that His is the One whose grip matters. 

Ultimately, do I believe that God is who He says He is and will do what He says he will do? My mind forgets that I know Who holds the future, the One who loves deeper than I, the One on whom only I can trust. But God’s Word reminds me!

Psalm 34:21 The Lord redeems the life of his servants; none of those who take refuge in him will be condemned. 

My prayer is that we find who we are in Christ, and see ourselves as He sees us. That we continue to seek the reflection that matters, the one that will tell us the truth about who we are, where we stand, and where we can strive to do better–for Him.

As for the physical mirror? Well, I’m getting older. Weight hangs on a little more persistently, lines and aging happen, but I can’t reverse it one bit by hating it. So, I’ll just spend less time examining myself in that mirror. 

My prayer is that God will help us to focus our attentions on the the Mirror that reflects the most important part of ourselves–our souls. As we strive to improve that reflection, we become more like He is. We can’t get more beautiful than that!

March 16, 2018 · 2 Comments

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  1. Victoria Guyadeen says

    March 21, 2018 at 4:14 pm

    I love your honesty in this post. Don’t we all struggle with the girl in the mirror? Don’t we question if we measure up to other girls? Asking why her? A bit jealous of the girl who looks like she has it all together. I am 24 years old and I struggle at times greatly with who I see in the mirror. I am chronically ill. The past few years of battling my body and being on medication have changed how I look drastically. My hope comes in knowing the Lord is my strength. God’s mirror is an amazing mirror.

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    • Brina Lynn says

      March 21, 2018 at 4:58 pm

      Victoria, thank YOU for your openness! Are we… Jealous, yes. Insecure, yes. But more importantly, created in God’s image, YES! At 24 and knowing where your hope comes from is awesome! May He bless you immeasurably!

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